Who belongs? Who is out?

img_0288.jpgThese signs have been popping up in my neighborhood. I see them every day when I walk the dogs.

I took this picture. It is a little blurry but I did not want to walk onto their lawn to take a picture. Too weird.

This sign responds to the one that folks like me put up after tRump issued his Muslim ban: “Hate Has No Home Here.”

This conservative reply in the sign wars illustrates the insularity, religiosity, and xenophobia of folks who have this sign.

First, there is the flag of the United States of American. This implies that the message only applies to citizens (and probably not legal aliens).

Second, the first noun of the list is God. This suggests that only believers in some sort of monotheism are included. If you are an atheist or agnostic, you can just forget it.

Third, family and friends — I guess only those folks who are known directly and personally qualify to be loved and treated as human beings.

Fourth, country — well, I guess USA always comes first. You can’t love other countries. Only 1 country.

Fifth, community could imply an embrace of a larger group of people but what about folks who don’t live in your community?

Sixth and worst, the U.S. Constitution. Clearly the message is that the Constitution should be regarded as some sort of sacred document — probably with special reference to the 2nd amendment.

The sign’s underlying message does not signal love of others, but love of a select group of like-thinking people.

Oh, yes. Let me know forget. The entire thing is in English.

Ours includes multiple languages and does not exclude anyone. Who has the better sign?

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Stay Focused, Democrats

This past week has been absolutely dreadful. The week before when Dr. Blasey Ford testified was not too spiffy either.

Senators Lisa Murkowki of Alaska and Heidi Heitkamp of North Dakota voted their conscience against the tempermentally, morally and ethically unsuited Kavanaugh for the Supreme Court. Heitkamp might lose her seat in the Senate over this vote. Senator Susan Collins wrapped herself in her misguided patriotism and voted for this scoundrel.

This partisan hack is now a member of the Supreme Court. I hope RBG eats him alive.

So what is a Democrat to do?

STAY FOCUSED.

Work with your local democratic party to canvass voters, sign up to greet voters at the polls on November 6, talk to your neighbors about the importance of voting, stay informed about the Democratic candidates. I spent all weekend working with other Democrats to show our pride in our party by having the better float in our township parade. I also spend a couple hours canvassing Democrats, asking them to support our candidates and to vote on November 6.

STAY FOCUSED.

Vote the straight Democratic ticket. Push the button at the top so at one swoop you vote for all the Dems. Or vote for each candidate one by one. But under no circumstances split your ticket. All Republicans are governed by the party ultimately. They take their goose-stepping orders ultimately from the party leaders in Washington, DC. And that means the master manipulator McConnell. This man is a complete hypocrite. He said that every nominee to the Supreme Court should be given a hearing and a vote. He is suffering from self-inflicted amnesia about how he treated Obama’s nominee Merrick Garland.

STAY FOCUSED.

We need to play the long game as the other side has been doing for years.

We need to work together to take back our country and when we win — and we will win — we need to put our judges on the bench, pass laws that treat everyone fairly and protect our values of inclusion, respect, and justice.

STAY FOCUSED.

If the Republicans can play for blood, so can we. Their power is the last gasp of white fear and rage. Demographics is on our side. They know their days in power are numbered and that they will soon be extinct as a party.

We will vanquish them as long as we…

STAY FOCUSED.

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The Girl in the Tower

51rBzGpMZnL._SY346_Last week I finished the second book in Katherine Arden’s series about Vasilisa and her quest for freedom from medieval Russian norms for girls. The second book picks up exactly where the first book ends. But for those wanting to know about her relationship with the frost demon Morozko, you must wait several chapters as we are told what is happening in Moskow to her sister Olga and her brother Aleksander.

This time Vasilisa must combat a new enemy who is Kasyan Lutovitch, who is both a real and a mythological threat. Arden modeled Kasyan on Kaschei the Deathless, who is the villain in Stravinsky’s Firebird. The Firebird also makes an unexpected appearance in this novel.

It was an enjoyable read but not nearly as compelling as the first book, The Bear and the Nightingale. Why? I think because I was much more intrigued by how Arden wove in the Russian folktale elements and land spirits. This time the book was more about swords and battles than a girl growing up and becoming a person who soars above medieval (and modern) gender norms.

Reading Again

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A picture narrative of my birthday — and what I love and live

Triangle cake from Art Deco cake pan from 1920s
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Introvert driven to find quiet space

Yesterday we had a faculty meeting in which we were asked to discuss how to support students who are introverts. Questions we discussed included: how to gauge whether they are engaged; how to provide them options for quiet work; how to allow to share ideas on discussion posts.

But what about introverted faculty?

This year after five years having the luxury of a quiet classroom where I can gather my thoughts for the day, a colleague is prepping for class. She does a wonderful job putting up the agenda for the day for her classes and setting out her materials. But now the music is playing and I am leaving in minute.

But where to go? The library? The faculty lounge? The department? The Residence?

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The last Thursday before ….

Most teachers dread the last few days of summer before the beginnings of faculty/staff meetings. It means the relatively schedule-free days where time is not punctuated by bells at regular intervals.

This was my last free Thursday. There are no more this summer. I spent it by organizing some files (boring), picking up a prescription, buying a new bedside lamp (LED requested by SH) and a pair of red shoes (which should coordinate nicely with my patterned Boden pants), aimlessly reading stuff on the web (waste of time), walking the dogs several times, meeting the electrician who installed an outlet for the new garage opener and door (to be installed August 31), pulling up some random weeds, fixing the hem on a pair of dress pants for SH. Soon I will start dinner (homemade pesto with mushrooms and pepper slices and shrimp). Then spend the evening with SH, maybe watching a show on TV but more likely reading books next to each other in bed.

It is not so  bad a life.

The New York Times did have an interesting article about work/life perspective. Tim Herrera interviewed Alison Green, who writes the blog “Ask a Manager.” The main point of the article is that when the statement, “we are like family” is tossed around it is not usually to the advantage of the employee. The phrase puts certain expectations on the employee in terms of time, availability and priorities. And the expectations go all one way. The article reminded me of something SH says, “The institution never loves you back.”

I think about this as I approach a new year. For teachers it is quite hard to draw these boundaries, but it is essential to do so. We are not the parents or friends of our students. We are their educators. That is a good thing. I am such more patient with my students than my own children. Any of my three kids would even say that I am nicer to my students. But then I don’t love my students as I do my children. And my students do not carry the burden of my unrealistic hopes, dreams, and expectations which my children do. My teacher self has different tolerances, strengths, and skills than does my parent self.

This year I am starting a new role which should challenge me personally and professionally in new ways. A class dean oversees the needs of a single grade in the upper school. The dean works with other deans, administrators, teachers, parents and the students themselves to try to provide an environment of growth and risk-taking and learning for each student as an individual and for the class as a whole. I am somewhat intimidated by this new endeavor and that is a good thing. If I were walking in and thinking I had this new role down, well, that would be a problem.

What I do know is that I am going to work at maintaining a work/life balance so when I am at school as teacher, colleague or dean, I have the requisite mental and emotional resilience.

 

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Finished 4 more books

enchantmentWhile I was in England, I finished Orson Scott Card’s novel Enchantment which has time-bending, a sleeping princess, linguistics, Baba Yaga, Russian politics, Jewish identity, and lost medieval kingdoms. Card certainly did he research into Proppian structural analysis of Russian fairy tales, synchronic development of folktales and languages, and medieval history. Quite an enjoyable book to read again after 20 years. I remember reading it the first time when we first moved to Philly and the children were quite little and every week we would trundle to the library for them to get out more books.

Then because we were in Wales and spent several days in what was the medieval principality of Gwyenned and visiting all the castles of Llewelyn Fawr, I reread Sharon Kay Penman’s book Here Be Dragons. 220px-HereBeDragons

Over the last week and a half, I have finished the first two Harry Potter books: Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone and Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets.

Now I am going to take a break from HP and read a book we required as summer reading for the students. Only a couple more weeks before school starts so I better get going!

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My husband would be unhappy…

But I rode my bike without a helmet to deliver absentee ballots to people who live at the edge of my ward which means several blocks from our house.

Why didn’t I ever think of riding my bike before? It was so much easier than driving where you stop, park, turn off the car, walk, return to car, turn car on, drive to next destination and repeat multiple times.

So much easier.

And while delivering absentee ballots, I met a young man who was walking two dogs which kept getting tangled up in their leashes. Turns out he is a local college student and earns money taking care of dogs. Score! I might have found a weekend dog babysitter because he actually lives in the house when he takes care of the dogs.

I have another precinct to do tomorrow and will use my bike.

Then riding home, I saw a neighbor out working on his yard pulling up weeds (strong Democrat who supported me last year in my unsuccessful bid to become township commissioner). We talked about how we might need paper ballots and lots of other stuff — such as how white people who look like us (our age, etc) are assumed to be on the wrong side (i.e. tRump supporters). But we are not. Then I asked if he would want to be an appointed Democratic committee person for our ward. He demurred but said his wife might. SCORE!

Then I biked home to start weeding my yard.

But happy note. Look at the flowers which were blooming! The three sunflowers were planted as baby seedlings by our daughter in the spring.

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Dinosaurs in London?!

So one of my days in London I spent the entire afternoon at the Globe. I had a tour at 12:00 and then ate lunch and then went back for a Hamlet performance.

I ate lunch on the south bank of the Thames looking at the north bank and all the buildings stretching from St. Paul’s in the west to not quite the Tower in the east.

And I swear one of the buildings looked like it had three velociraptors running across the top.

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Take a look and see what you think.

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Reading Harry Potter — again

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Here is the 10 year anniversary edition. I have no idea where our original copy is.

Recently SH bought the complete Harry Potter series for the kindle. He has been reading it steadily and is far far far ahead of me. I just downloaded the series to my phone a few days ago as a diversion from the news.

After three weeks in England and mostly but not quite disconnected for the news of the USA, I decided I would read HP when I am waiting or bored or whatever instead of opening some news app. I think it will make me happier.

Our three children grew up on HP. We were given our copy of Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone by a friend who is married to SH’s oldest friend from college and medical school. She is a librarian and has a gift for finding the best books. I don’t remember what year she gave us the book. It was on a summer visit they made with their own three children to Philadelphia. I would guess maybe 16 years ago.

Anyway, SH read a chapter a night to the children just before bed. I can see them all piled on the bed in a heap listening to him read. He read all the books but the last one to them. He said that some of the chapters got quite long but the children refused to let him stop midway through a chapter. He had to read the entire chapter. When Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows was published in 2007 (10 years after the first book), we ordered three copies. If folks wanted to talk about it, they had to go outside so there were not plot spoilers. I remember our middle boy taking his copy and climbing high up into the holly tree in our yard to read.

I am about half-way through the first book and enjoying it immensely. As I read, I look for little clues which foreshadow what will happen latter. I am also keeping a close eye  on Snape to see how his behavior in the early books presages his heroism in the last book.

So a special thank you to our librarian friend to giving our family such a wonderful gift.

And a special loving thank you to my SH for buying the series on the kindle — for the good memories I have from our children growing up and for the immersion in a world where loyalty and friendship and love do win.

 

 

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